I heard this somewhere and it just makes so much sense. Simple but powerful.

“Your relationship must have integrity, without integrity you have nothing and the relationship will not grow, much less last.”

If you are in a “relationship” that has to be hidden for ANY reason please move on! If you are in a relationship where you cant talk or hang out with family and friends freely, move on. If you cant answer your phone when your man is in the room because he gets “attitude” when you talk with friends/family, move on. If you are constantly walking on eggshells around your man, move on.

Im not talking about healthy relationships where sometimes you dont answer your cell because you are having special time with your man. That is just normal. Sometimes I dont answer my phone even when Im hanging with friends, just depends. However, no one dictates if I answer my phone or not or if I go out and hang with friends.

My relationship with my man comes first, period, but I dont ignore my friends and family because Im in a relationship. You may see me less but Im still here and free to talk and hang out. My man would never get in the middle of my other relationships.

My relationship has integrity and it is a damn good feeling. This is the first for me well at least the first in a very long time.

To all you ladies that cant talk on the phone or hang out you really need to think about how you want to live the rest of your life AND to all the loser guys that enjoy making your girl feel bad for having friends why dont you get some self esteem and create a life for yourself and allow your girl to have one too.

Wow I sound a bit harsh here huh? Just passionate about this subject:)